Wednesday, September 24, 2014

Contentment and the Stuff Mart

Even as a senior citizen, I still love Veggie Tales! When I babysat our granddaughter years ago, she and I loved to watch Madame Blueberry and the Stuff Mart.  Although Madame had lots of good friends and a nice tree house, she was still unhappy because she thought she needed more “stuff.”

Like Madame Blueberry, many people look at what others have: a bigger house, a nicer car, better vacations, stylish clothes, new furniture, and the list goes on and on.  We want them because we feel discontented, or bored.  We want them because we feel jealous, envious, or inferior to others who have “more.”  Learn why Madame Blueberry was so “blue.”  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e2un3RWta_4

I Timothy 6:6 reads: “But godliness with contentment is great gain; for we brought nothing into this world, and we can take nothing out of it.  But if we have food and clothing, we will be content with that.”

And Hebrews 13:5 says, “Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have, because God has said, ‘Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.  So we say with confidence, ‘The Lord is my helper; I will not be afraid.  What can man do to me?’”

Is it possible the reason we covet and are discontent is because we’re afraid someone else will “get ahead” of us, receive more praise, more approval from others?  I believe the Lord is saying, “Your value is not in what you have, but in who I say you are.” 

You may ask, “So you’re saying I shouldn’t care what house I live in, what kind of clothes I have, or whether or not I have enough money?”  No, that’s not what I’m saying.  God created us to want to be creative, invent things, and be a good care-taker of what He’s given us.  I like what I read somewhere: we shouldn't be discontent to the point of being agitated or disquieted.  

Sometimes I get the urge to buy new accessories for the house because after six or seven years, I get tired of the “same old, same old.”  You ever been there?  That’s when I have to ask myself, “Why do I want to buy something new?”  For me, I think that it's my creative side calls to me.  For example, I imagine what our master bedroom would look like with different curtains and bedspread.  But then I remember the scripture about being content with what I have, and I think of the many who wish they had a home—or anything, for that matter. I start thanking God for what I already have, and the urge to buy something new dissipates. 

  
Instead, I look at my house and try to think how I could rearrange the furniture, or relocate wall art, candles, silk flowers and greenery.  Decorating for the seasons helps satisfy my creative side, too.  I closed my Home Interiors & Gifts business in June of 2009, and I still had a lot of things left from my stock.  I had an open house sale that year, gave a lot away, and kept just what fit into a closet.  I do love color, design and creativity, and I don’t think Jesus is against that.  In fact, He created us to want to improve our environment, be creative and inventive.  He just doesn’t want our lives to be disquieted with wanting more and more “stuff” for the sake of accumulation.  

If we so choose, the simple things in life bring us joy and contentment.  Charles Dickens said, “Cheerfulness and contentment are great beautifiers and are famous preservers of youthful looks.”  Madame Blueberry certainly wasn’t nice to be around when she was sucked into Complaining Swamp. In the end, she learned to be thankful for what she had.

Contentment comes from learning to be thankful—not comparing ourselves to others or entertaining the green-eyed monster.  Comparisons create feelings of stress, envy, jealousy, and resentment.  So what if someone is smarter, cuter, has something nicer or bigger, or is approved by high society?  Our worth does not depend on earthly, temporal things.  As followers of Jesus Christ, our perspective must be on eternal values learned from God’s Word.  I Timothy 6:17-18 tells us, “Command those who are rich in this present world not to be arrogant nor to put their hope in wealth, which is so uncertain, but to put their hope in God, who richly provides us with everything for our enjoyment.  Command them to do good, to be rich in good deeds, and to be generous and willing to share.”

The Russian author, Leo Tolstoy, tells the story of a man who was told he could have all the land he could walk around in one day, but he had to be back at the starting point by sundown.  The man walked for a long time, and thought he’d better head back, but he kept saying, “Just a little bit farther,” and kept walking to widen his territory.  Finally, he knew he had to head back, and he ran.  In the distance he saw his starting place, and in a burst of speed and determination, he crossed the finish line just as the sun slipped behind the hill.  He fell to the ground, gasping for breath, as blood gushed from his mouth and nose, and he died.  In the end, the only land he needed was six feet. 

God bless you, dear reader! 

All scriptures are from the NIV Bible. 


                                    Copyright ©2014 Elaine Beachy




Saturday, September 20, 2014

How to Pray for Your Children

What’s a parent to do?  Besides Television Thoroughfare and Computer Court being dangerous places for children to play, drugs, alcohol, and promiscuous behavior threaten their health and safety if they associate with the wrong peers.  Schools with liberal philosophies on sex education, evolution, and moral relativism threaten to erode godly values. 

Some parents make financial sacrifices and enroll their children in expensive private or Christian schools in an attempt to protect them from wrong influences.  But, human nature being what it is without Jesus, there is no guarantee that, even in Christian schools, safety from every threat will be found.    

You install television and computer filters to help protect your children from destruction.  You are careful to watch over your child’s friendships.  If you’re a Christian parent, I know you care deeply that your child receives salvation by faith in Jesus Christ.  You’ve cultivated a godly atmosphere of love in your home, and taught the Word of God to them.  But still you struggle with worry and fears because of unprecedented challenges your children face in today’s society, as sin and lawlessness increase.  

As children spread their wings and fly from the nest, so to speak, many parents worry whether they have done enough to disciple their children in the ways of the Lord to prepare them for life.  What if they walk away from Jesus?  What if they marry the wrong person?  What if they choose the wrong career?  What if they adopt New Age teaching, get sucked into the occult or witchcraft?

A mother’s pillow is wet with tears before she falls asleep at night, only to awaken in the early morning hours with the pain of a wayward son or daughter still in her heart.  She blames herself for failing as a parent and prays in distress, fearful that her child will turn against God and be eternally lost.  Fear haunts her.  Fathers also experience this pain. "What if… what if… what if… " STOP!  Such thoughts and speech are destructive – and negatively productive! 
                              
I have hope and good news for you: declare the Word of God over your children!  “The Word of God is living and powerful, and sharper than any two-edged sword…”  (Hebrews 4:12, NKJ)   Stop praying in fear.  Declare the Word of the Lord with the power and authority Jesus gave you!  You will find hope and faith arise in your heart when you do.  It gives God a framework of faith in which to work on their behalf.  Claim God’s promises about your children and stand on them in persistent faith, no matter how circumstances look.  The Word says in Psalm 127:3 that “Sons are a heritage from the Lord, children a reward from Him.”   Speak life!  Choose words based on what God says about your children and declare them prayerfully, with faith in God: Don’t say things like:
·         My kids are a pain in the neck.
·         Suzie will never change.
·         Satan has my kids.
·         Johnny is no good.
·         I wish I didn’t have any kids.


Do you want those words to bear fruit?  I don’t think so.  You should be aware that parents who repeatedly say or think such things give the devil legal license and inroads into their children’s lives.  Don’t do that!  Proverbs 18:20 (NKJ) says that the power of life and death are in the power of the tongue.
·         My children are a blessing.
·         God is doing a good work in Suzie’s life.
·         My children are taught of the Lord.
·         God will fulfill His plan in Johnny’s life.
·         I’m blessed to be entrusted with raising children for the Lord.


One of my favorite scriptures to pray over my children is Isaiah 54:13:  “All your sons will be taught by the Lord, and great will be your children’s peace.”  Another one is, “I will pour out My Spirit on all people.  Your sons and daughters will prophesy, your young men will see visions…”  (Acts 2:17)  And, “Train a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it.”  (Proverbs 22:6) 

I put my children’s names in the Scripture verses and say them back to God.  “For as the rain comes down, and the snow from heaven, and do not return there, but water the earth, and make it bring forth and bud, that it may give seed to the sower and bread to the eater, so shall My word be that goes forth from My mouth; it shall not return to Me void, but it shall accomplish what I please, and it shall prosper in the thing for which I sent it.”  Isaiah 55:10-11 (NKJ)  God gave us His Word, His promises, to speak in the earth, that He may establish them.  It's the Genesis law of sowing and reaping.  Your words are spiritual seeds; choose them carefully.  The crop you raise will be your own.

Remember that Proverbs 18:21 says, “The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit.”  The Lord has given us very great and precious promises that are realized when we speak our faith in His word, and with persistent patience, wait on the Lord to bring about the fulfillment.  Like a farmer who plants his crops in the earth, and waits for the harvest, so we sow into the spiritual realm with the words of our mouth.  What kind of harvest do you want?  It’s important to say what God says about you, your family, and your circumstances.

For more on speaking God’s Word over your children, I recommend Mike Shreve’s book, “65 Promises From God for Your Child – Powerful Prayers for Supernatural Results.”

Be encouraged, dear reader, and God bless you!

All Scriptures are from the NIV translation unless otherwise noted.


Copyright ©2014 Elaine Beachy