Hospitality, Part 2

We are all created for fellowship, to be in a family and circle of relationships even outside the family unit.  But have you noticed?  We sit in church looking at the back of heads while listening to the sermon.  Unless you're in a Bible study or a life group, you will likely experience very little interaction with other believers.

Unless we interact in a meaningful way, how will we know if someone is dealing with sickness or emotional issues and in need of prayer?  Teetering on the edge of divorce?  Facing bankruptcy?  Losing a job?  Dealing with rebellious children?  Grieving the loss of a loved one?  Impacted by someone who, justly or unjustly, is in prison?  Life decimated because of drugs or alcohol?

Sometimes we avoid hospitality because we, like Marlene, don't want to be overwhelmed with work.  Sometimes we avoid hospitality because we harbor unforgiveness and bitterness that closes the heart toward others.  Other times we avoid it because we're just plain selfish; we seek our own comfort level.  Or maybe we're truly unaware of the need and command to be hospitable.  Many work long hours, or several jobs, and get focused on their own needs.  We may struggle with the fear of not being perfect (who is?).  We think our house is not nice enough, or big enough. We may withdraw because of any number of fears.

Maybe you've lost your job and have no money for serving a meal.  You can still practice hospitality by opening your heart and home with love and asking each guest to bring a dish to share.  Make it informal and relaxed, truly caring about the people.  You can have a casual night of fun at home with games, a movie and popcorn.  How about using the subject of hospitality, for example, for an evening of lively discussion?  Raise challenging questions this subject brings to mind, such as entertaining strangers as we are told to do, because some have entertained angels unawares.  You may wish to discuss our cultural climate of distrust because of violence or why we feel people are out to "take us for a ride" if they come to our door.  Discuss why we are more cynical and less trusting of others, less "neighborly" so to speak. 

If people feel cared for, you have succeeded at hospitality!

Part 3 tomorrow. . . 

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